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Morganne Comstock

Life After Death

By Erica Metzler
Special to HoopGurlz
Posted Mon, 11/12/2007 - 11:49 Seven months after the tragic loss of a rising star and friend, Morganne Comstock and Kentlake High School try to cope with her absence.

STORY BY ERICA METZLER; PHOTOS BY GLENN NELSON


Morganne Comstock memorializes her late friend, Carly Stowell

Morganne Comstock feels a part of her is missing. A part that has been with her since the 7th grade. The part that woke up early and waited early in line to buy her the Jordan 5’s for Christmas, the part that would stay up until 3 a.m. with her on New Year’s Eve and play NBA Street, or the person who would always be there to giggle with on bus rides.

However, during the Deep South Classic in Raleigh-Durham, N.C., last April, that part of her passed away. Morganne’s best friend — Carly Stowell, a rising star — collapsed at the team hotel and was unable to be revived by her mother or paramedics. Doctors believed her heart suffered a massive arrhythmic event, five days before her 15th birthday, leaving many in disbelief. It was difficult to comprehend that a girl so young with so much potential and so many possibilities could leave this world in a matter of minutes.


Morganne Comstock plays without Carly
Stowell for the first time since 7th grade

This upcoming basketball season at Kentlake High School in Kent, Wash., will be a further reminder to Comstock of her loss. She will be playing without Stowell, her companion on the court. Last year as the only freshman starters at the school just south of Seattle, Comstock and Stowell earned Co-MVP honors, were the team’s leading scorers, and helped lead the Falcons to the Washington 4A state tournament. However, this season is going to be different for the team, especially Comstock. There is no doubt that Stowell will be missed.

"I’m trying not to think about it too much," said Comstock, who averaged 12.9 points a game last year for the Falcons. “It has really changed everything, like who I hang out with now and how I play basketball. We just knew where we were on the court and always helped each other out. She assisted all my points and just made me a better player on the court."

The Falcons will face the challenge of playing without their young star, their point guard, who carried the team with the ball at her fingertips.

"We have a lot of pieces in place, but it’s just a matter of figuring out how to play again without the person who led us last year," said Kentlake head coach Scott Simmons. "Carly was a once-in-a-lifetime kind of kid. She was our head and shoulders and picked us up and carried us into state. It’s hard to replace someone like that."

Stowell was the leading rebounder, the kind of player who could beat traps by herself, and was conscientious of her role on the court.

"When she stepped on the court it was business; she knew she had a job to do," said Simmons. “As a team we followed her and this year is going to be tough to figure out who will pull us along."


Carly Stowell at the Washington 4A
tournament

Comstock is up to the challenge, devoting and playing every game in Stowell’s memory.

She has a sweatband with Carly’s number, "21", on it that she will wear every game, and also has Carly’s name written on her shoes. She has been working on her ballhandling skills, moving to the wing position from post. One of her goals for the season is to help get the ball up the court because she knows her team will need it the most.

"Last year, before every game, Carly and I would always sing “Over My Head," so I am probably going to listen to that before every game," Comstock said.

The memories of Carly are always there.

"I think about her every day," she said. "If I just see one of her relatives I just think about her, or if I am having a problem I think about what she would say. I am doing better than before and I think I am doing good in a better way, but it just changed a lot of things."

Simmons believes that the start of the season will be difficult for Comstock without Stowell on the court but feels like she is ready to rise up to the task.

"I think that she will be playing this season and the rest of her life in Carly’s memory," he said. “She will dominate and have an amazing year. She is extremely motivated and wants to show how good Carly was by making people notice us as a team."

The Falcons are returning nine players and understand that things have to be better than last year in order to get back to the state tournament. Although they have some experience, Simmons will make things more competitive and tough. The team will have morning weight training and shooting practices three days a week. The idea is to have greater strength to compete with bigger teams at state.


Her coach says Morganne Comstock "will
dominate"

Kentlake did play in several tournaments over the summer without Stowell, a slight struggle for the team.

"We did find some success and left the summer encouraged with the teams’ ability to deal with what happened," Simmons said. "We definitely won’t forget about it. We learned it was okay to keep playing and that was a big step for the team."

The Falcons will step on the court together again when official practices start on November 12. It will be a learning and growing process for all.

"We have a chance to make it to state, but this season is just going to be different," Comstock said.

The team is getting memorial patches on their home and away jerseys with Carly’s name. They will hang one of her jerseys in the gym and although the school can’t retire the number officially, the team will make sure her number never gets ordered.

"In addition we will take her No. 21 jersey to all the games and keep her with us on the bench," said Simmons. "It is a way to keep her close to us and remember she is still apart of us and what we are doing."



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Erica Metzler is a senior at the University of Washington, majoring in Journalism. She hopes to write about sports after graduating in the spring. Erica attended Peninsula High School in Rancho Palos Verdes, Calif., where she played basketball for four years, softball for two and lacrosse for one. She presently writes for the University of Washington Daily and works part-time for the Seattle Times. Her hobbies include going to concerts, listening to music, missing the beach and sun, watching sports and hanging out with friends. Erica can be reached at erica@hoopgurlz.com.


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